A wedding weekend
Emma & James
A small family wedding on a working farm in west Sonoma.
Welcome
We can't wait to celebrate with you.
Around forty of our closest people, gathered for a long weekend on a working farm in west Sonoma. We're going for warm, grounded, and unfussy — California native flowers from a Sebastopol farm, a Levantine feast for dinner, Celtic and Irish trad music in the evening, a Friday family Olimpicks, and plenty of unstructured time to just be together. The farm sits about an hour and a half north of San Francisco.
Where to stay
Accommodation
We've booked two places to keep everyone close. If you've already sorted a room with us, you're set.
Inn at Occidental
Parents' generation
Booked out for the weekend, Aug 27–30. Cozy and classic, in the village of Occidental — about 10–15 minutes from the farm. Thursday welcome and Sunday brunch are here.
Green Valley Farm
Close friends & cousins
The farm sleeps up to about 20 in the bedrooms on-site. Rustic and communal, right in the middle of everything.
What to expect
- Warm, sunny days and breezy evenings
- The farm is rural — dust, gravel, animals, and patchy cell service
- Occidental village has cafés and restaurants, courts, and a few trailheads nearby
Getting there
Travel
The farm is in Sebastopol, in west Sonoma County. Three airports work — pick by where you're coming from. From overseas, SFO is the easiest way in.
| Fly into | Drive to Sebastopol |
|---|---|
| San Francisco (SFO) | ~1.5 hours |
| Oakland (OAK) | ~1.5 hours |
| Santa Rosa · Sonoma County (STS) | ~30 minutes |
Worth a detour
Thursday afternoon and Sunday after brunch are the natural windows to wander.
- The coast — Bodega Bay and Jenner, ~30 minutes west. Beach walks and oysters.
- Russian River wineries — ~20 minutes north. Pinots and chardonnays under the redwoods.
- Healdsburg — ~40 minutes northeast. A walkable square and some of the county's best restaurants.
- The Barlow, Sebastopol — 15 minutes. Food, breweries, and tasting rooms in one walkable spot.
Good to know
Before you come
What's the weather like?
Late August is the warmest, driest stretch of the year. Highs around 80°F — occasionally into the high 80s — and nights cool to about 55°F. Almost no rain. Bring a light layer for after the sun goes down.
What's the dress code?
Garden party attire on Saturday — summer dresses, linen suits, soft colors. The rest of the weekend is relaxed. Whatever you wear, make it easy to dance in and warm enough for a Sonoma evening.
What should I pack?
- Something nice for the ceremony and dinner
- Comfortable shoes for the farm — gravel, grass, dust
- A jacket or shawl for cool evenings
How do I RSVP?
Reply to your invitation and let us know if you're coming.
Are gifts expected?
Please don't feel you need to bring anything. If you'd like to do more, we'll share a little closer to the date.
Is there a formal ceremony?
Yes — Saturday afternoon at the farm, small and family-focused. We're also throwing a celebration in Australia within the year, for family who can't make this trip.
Reach us
Any questions
With love,
Emma & James